“Lily,” he said through tears, “when Ryan shoved my face into that cake, I felt humiliated. Completely humiliated. And suddenly I understood what I did to you.”
He cried while apologizing.
Not performative tears.
Real ones.
“It was stupid,” he admitted. “I thought it would be funny, but I humiliated the woman I love.”
Then he said something I’ll never forget.
“For the first time in my life, someone forced me to feel exactly what I made another person feel.”
I forgave him eventually.
Not instantly.
But slowly.
And to his credit, he never forgot that lesson.