My own daughter told me, “Mom, don’t come to the l…

I know the exact time because the digital clock above the microwave glowed green against the dim kitchen light, and because when one sentence changes the shape of your life, your mind has a way of pinning it to details that would otherwise mean nothing. Six forty-seven. A dented saucepan lid leaning against the sink.

The smell of thyme and black pepper rising from the broth. One dumpling half-folded over itself because I had dropped it in too fast. My hands were wet, so I hit speaker with the side of my wrist.

Lorraine’s voice came through bright and clipped, already moving too quickly for affection. “Hey, Mom. So, listen.

Kevin and I were talking, and we think this summer it might be best if you don’t come up to the lake house. You know, the kids are getting older, they want to bring friends, and Kevin’s parents are flying in from Denver, and it’s just—there’s not enough room. You understand, right?

We’ll figure out another time. Love you.”