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My shoes sank a little into the red Georgia dirt. I tried to imagine the porch, the roofline, the chimney stone, the windows catching sunset. It was not exactly grief that came over me then.

It was something steadier. Purpose with a pulse. I hired a contractor named Earl Maddox.

He was a local man, sixty if he was a day, with hands like baseball mitts and a voice like gravel dumped into a steel bucket. Earl knew how to build houses that looked like they belonged where they stood. He wore the same faded cap every weekend, drank coffee black enough to qualify as roofing tar, and did not waste words.

“You sure you want a wraparound porch this big?” he asked the day we walked the lot with the plans. “Yes.”

“Screened section off the kitchen too?”

“Yes.”

He squinted at the paper. “You got grandchildren?”

“Five.”

“Then make the porch bigger.”

That was how I knew we were going to get along.

Earl built the frame. I chose everything else. I chose wide-plank pine floors with enough knots to look like a real house and not a brochure.