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“That,” Dad would say, clapping Caleb on the back, “is a young man who knows how to make himself known.”
I never made myself known. I learned early how to move through our house without becoming a problem. I closed cabinets softly. I avoided the stair that creaked. I knew how to clear dishes without making the plates touch too loudly.
In my family, noise meant confidence. Silence meant weakness.
Not openly, at first. They did not call me that at church or in front of neighbors. It began with softer words.
Evelyn is sensitive. Evelyn doesn’t handle pressure well. Evelyn is smart, but she has no grit.
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