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Every morning, she sat on the bathroom counter while I sprayed detangler through her golden waves. She told me her dreams while I braided them. She wanted hair down to her ankles like Rapunzel, not because she believed beauty made her better, but because children attach magic to simple things. Some children have superhero capes. Some have baseball cards. Meadow had her hair.
My mother-in-law believed softness was a weakness. She raised Dustin alone after his father abandoned them, and she wore that history like both a medal and a weapon. She never raised her voice when a sharp comment could cut deeper. She called my parenting “permissive.” She called Meadow “dramatic.” She insisted little girls needed boundaries before the world “spoiled them rotten.”
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